2003_9_ipod.jpgYet another wrinkle in that new dimension of the office friendship - the personal technology conundrum (do you give your cellphone number to a coworker? what about personal email?)- is revealed. New York magazine's Help Desk answers a very important question: What to do when someone wants to "borrow" your carefully compiled and cataloged collection of music for your iPod. It boils down to: "Unless you’re looking to sleep with this co-worker—or owe her some sort of insanely big favor—I can’t see why you should feel any obligation to go out of your way to help her engage in Grand Theft Audio."