Madonna says that Jennifer Lopez is trying too hard to get media attention and that's what doomed her relationship with Ben Affleck. "Ultimately, if you’ve a strong relationship — and there’s understanding of what a committed marriage is — I don’t think that having a lot of media attention can break it up. To a certain extent, they courted the media attention. At the end of the day I feel like that’s their job, and then there needs to be a part of the relationship that you keep private." Hello, Truth or Dare. Hello, Sex. Does the Kabbalah also incude memory loss? She adds, "You know, I’m not making a judgment call on Jennifer and Ben. We can only make assumptions about why it did or didn’t happen.” Thank God for assuming!