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On-Duty Cop Kills Himself, Facebook Romance Blamed

2009_02_nypdlogo.jpg An on-duty police officer shot and killed himself on the street outside his home early this morning as his girlfriend watched. 29-year-old Philip Chlanda, who had been a part of the NYPD since 2007, was reportedly distraught "his girlfriend had been communicating with someone on Facebook."

Details are still emerging, but it appears that Chlanda left TriBeCa's 1st Precinct mid-shift sometime before 3 a.m. this morning and went to the 37th and Lexington apartment where he lived with his parents and girlfriend, upset because the latter was threatening to leave him. An argument inside ensued, after which Chlanda, followed by his unidentified girlfriend, went back to his squad car on 38th Street and pulled out his 9mm.

As his girlfriend watched, Chlanda reportedly said "I love you" one last time and pulled the trigger. His girlfriend promptly called 911, but paramedics didn't have time and Chlanda died at Bellevue Hospital earlier this morning.

"He was a gentle sort of fellow, very courteous," neighbor Dr. Rosemary Clemens told the News. "It's very unsettling. It's particularly terrible when it's somebody in the line of duty protecting others. He must have been a very troubled soul. All we can do is hope he's in a better place."

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  • Living with Philip and his parents and dating someone else.
    Couldn't she have had the decency to move out?
    After the demise of her late cuckolded boyfriend,is she still living at the same address?
    R.I.P. Philip

  • The Irish Black Rose

    Nothing like a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

  • Guest

     You can only feel when you are alive. Suicide makes you feel nothing, not even good.

  • OvaltineJenkins

    Is she dating yet? Did the reporter get her phone number?

  •  I hate how people drop "Facebook" as a buzz word.  Like all of a sudden Zuckerberg invented adultery & suicide? 

  • MermaidFornicator

    relax fanboy, the means of communication is always mentioned in these types of stories. 

  • Yes, clearly there would never be a goofy moral panic about the internet.

  • SonnyBobiche

    This is a tragedy but it is a relief that this poor soul was not one of those possessive selfish bastards who kill their girlfriends so that no one else can have them.
     

  • Rocknrope

    Killing yourself is senseless; killing yourself over a girlfriend/boyfriend is that much more so.  As hackey as it is to say "time heals all wounds," it's true.  In a few years time, everyone becomes "whatshis/whatsher name."

  • jaycjay

     "followed by his unidentified girlfriend, went back to his squad car on 38th Street and retrieved his 9mm."

    That kind of threw me, because why would he leave his gun in the car? But in fact, according to the linked articles, he didn't "retrieve" his gun after returning to the RMP. He had it with him through the whole visit, but drew it after returning to the car.

  • Fixed. I got that detail–which on reflection was odd–from the Post, which has since updated their copy. 

  • JarekAF

     If he really loved her he wouldn't have blamed her for making him kill himself. 

  • masterjarvis

    where does it say he blamed her?  he may have just realized she didnt love him anymore and couldnt accept it but didnt blame her.  whatever i guess i understand what youre saying 

  • JarekAF

    True the article doesn't explicitly say that.  

    But, I don't know why else he would do that unless he was saying it was her fault that he was killing himself.   

  • Guest

    Whoops, there it is - sorry.

  • Guest

     Imma just put it out there that if you're feeling like you want to kill yourself, talk. Talk until the feeling passes, because it will pass in time. I'll never promise that things will get better, but I can promise you that suicide solves absolutely nothing.

    Another thing - don't be afraid of talking to someone who you feel may be contemplating suicide because here's the thing - you can't say the wrong thing. They're not even listening to you but keep talking anyway because you're buying time and THAT'S what they need. Don't be afraid of the words "Do you want to kill yourself" because at the end of the day, those might be the sweetest words someone can hear. Asking that will not push them into action, but it may very well start the conversation that will save their life.

    Be good to yourselves and be good to each other.

  • MermaidFornicator

     "suicide solves absolutely nothing"
    not true. suicide ends the pain, permanently.

  • pun31

    but it causes life long pain and sadness for those left behind- parents, siblings, friends, etc.

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