Bronx Transgender Couple Can Marry, City Apologizes
After a 14-month legal battle, a transgender couple from the Bronx was given permission to marry by the city clerk (below), who apologized for the treatment the couple received when they first attempted to get a marriage license. The couple, one male to female transgender and the other female to male, had been in a relationship for over a decade and attempted to wed in December 2009. But a worker at the City Clerk's Bronx office asked for their birth certificates because they didn't look like the sexes listed on their photo IDs, something Michael Silverman of the Transgender Legal Defense & Education Fund calls "illegal and unconstitutional."
It's unclear why the worker asked for more ID since regardless of gender identification the couple was of opposite sex, but City Clerk Michael McSweeney said this wouldn't happen again. He wrote a letter (below) to employees stating, "Gender stereotypes or preconceived notions related to gender expression—including an applicant's physical appearance, dress behavior or name—may not be considered when deciding whether to issue a marriage license," and new training procedures have been developed. He also wrote a letter to the couple, referred to as Jane and John, stating, "We sincerely apologize to you both for any inconvenience or embarrassment that resulted from this incident."
Silverman told the Daily News, "This is the first time it's been written down in this form, to ensure this type of discrimination doesn't happen again." The couple hasn't yet gotten a marriage license, but plans on getting married in the near future.
They should have new IDs with their new gender's pics on them, right? When my friend had her SRS she got all new papers.
PaulaNYC
Dysfunctional? Emotionally disturbed? Or, do you just have this innate narcissism that requires you to bring attention to yourself and your preferred sexual perversion at every point of everyday conversation?
THEN, WELCOME TO NEW YORK!!!
We'll not only "tolerate" your dysfunction,bizarre, perversions, we'll actually move heaven and earth to make sure that no matter how asocial and disturbed your particular brand of "Me-ism" is, WE will change the rules (and even break the law) to make sure that you're as comfortable as you were in the Green Room of the Jerry Springer Show!
That's rght! We will SPARE NO EXPENSE to facilitate whatever deeply disturbed emotional and sexual delusions you may harbor in a desperate attempt to prove we're not bigoted. Ever. Against anythng.
(And PLEASE, be patient. We're working hard on the beastality and pedophile thing, but be patient. The people from PETA are up in arms and we've had that Catholic priest thing that put our embrace of sexual pathologies back by years. And the tenants associations always seem to complain about the smell with the necrophilia thing --- but we're workng on it! Honest!)
Gosh Paula, it seems like the whole world is against you. The gay won't die out. All these trannies keep turning their innies into outties. The liberals want to raise your taxes and spend it on abortions. All the toilet paper is now recycled and hurts your bum.
You keep trying to change it but nothing seems to work. The gay are sparklier than ever and wont stop kissing and more innies are turning into outties than ever before, no matter how much you tell them that it grosses you out. It's like, how many sour-milk faces do I have to make before they just realize the truth, am I right?
PaulaNYC
If they want to live those lives, they should go elsewhere and start their own country or state. There's no reason we should have to tolereate it.
You can bitch and whine about it all you want, but I think this country is very far away from the systematic genocide of all transsexual people. They are everywhere and when you sleep they rub their micro weenies on your forehead and laugh.
But listen, in like 50 years you'll be dead and those trannies won't bother you at all. So thats a plus, right?
Guest
Spoken like a true hater of freedom and human rights. If you hate other people's freedom so much you are always free to leave this country.
MermaidFornicator
"It's unclear why the worker asked for more ID"
because it seemed like they had fake IDs. I don't know for sure but maybe the worker was just doing his job
Guest
that's what i was thinking too. but then again i'm not a city clerk and neither is the author of this article.
if jumping to conclusions makes everyone feel justified well, have at it!
Polite New Yorker
Another reason government should be out of the marriage business. Find someone else to marry you and file your legal agreement with the clerk. Call it whatever you want. Let the Christians and the gays fight it out without our tax dollars.
Gender identity and sexual expression are dependent on extremely complex biological and psychological workings that we barely know anything about and just beginning to research.
I can guarantee that you have less expertise than an ashtray talking about what is and isn't natural in those circumstances.
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