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Couple Sues Marriage Counselor Who Endorsed Cheating

053010lucy.jpg Couple Guido Venitucci and Heather Aldridge are seeking $8 million in damages in a lawsuit against Upper West Side marriage counselor Jeffrey Mechanic. Venitucci said Mechanic called him a "pussy" and said his wife was incapable of satisfying him during their weekly, $300 sessions. Then, when Venitucci "caved in and had an affair...[Mechanic] said there was nothing wrong with that." The couple says Mechanic's advice left them closer to divorce, and apparently they're not the only ones.

Former Mechanic patient Blair French said Mechanic urged her to detail her sexual fantasies in group therapy, and told her she should cheat on her husband by letting a businessman take her as a mistress. She said, "He encourages people to have affairs. He makes people feel it's OK. He gives them permission to do it. It's almost like he's telling them it will help their current marriage." French and her husband filed for divorce in 2006, after nearly 10 years of therapy with Mechanic.

Mechanic is allegedly contemplating a countersuit, and his lawyer called the allegations "absolutely frivolous. We deny all the allegations. We are disappointed to see they are going this route."

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  • SleepyM

    So apparently none of these couples have free will. I suppose no one told them that they didn't have to do everything their counselor said to do.

    "French and her husband filed for divorce in 2006, after nearly 10 years of therapy with Mechanic."

    And in all of that time it didn't occur to either of them to seek a different counselor? I hope the judge tosses the case out right away.

  • gawkthis

    maybe he should have just given them the url to ashleymadison.com?

  • Guest

    this shrink is giving 'cheating' a bad name.

    if you want to have multiple sexual partners, do not get into a monogamous relationship in the first place. if you do, you are cheating -- cheating yourself.

  • Splicer

    No, he encourages people not to monogamous which might work for some people but apparently did not for this couple. Stupid lawsuit. If I were a judge, I would ask them why they felt compelled to follow the advice if they didn't agree with it. Hate to break it to Heather but Guido had cheating on his mind before the visit to the therapist.

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