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Ex-Met Embroiled in $15 Million Sex Lawsuit

2009_02_alomar.jpg Former Met Roberto Alomar, the great second baseman with 10 Golden Gloves and 12 All-Star appearances, is being sued by a former girlfriend for $15 million. The charges? The Daily News reports that Queens resident Ilya Dall claims "Alomar has full-blown AIDS but insisted on having unprotected sex."

Dall says she lived with Alomar for three years and "watched in horror as his health worsened." The Post points out Dall's "suit does not claim that he knew he had AIDS when they were having unprotected sex - but he had reason to think he might because his doctors kept advising him to be tested." After some health issues, Dall claims a doctor told him to get an HIV test in 2005, but Alomar allegedly refused and said he was fine. From the News:

Dall said Alomar finally got tested in January 2006 while suffering from a cough, fatigue and shingles.

"The test results of him being HIV-positive was given to him and the plaintiff on or about Feb.6, 2006," the $15 million negligence suit says.

Nine days later, the couple went to see a disease specialist who discovered a mass in the retired second baseman's chest, the court papers say.

Alomar's skin had turned purple, he was foaming at the mouth and a spinal tap "showed he had full-blown AIDS," the suit says.

Another claim in the lawsuit: "In April 2005, Alomar told Dall he was suffering from erectile dysfunction and confided 'he was raped by two Mexican men after playing a ballgame in New Mexico or a Southwestern state when he was 17.'" Dall, who says she tested negative, is suing for damages from "emotional distress."

Alomar, who won World Series championships with the Toronto Blue Jays and is remembered for spitting in an umpire's face while with the Baltimore Orioles, retired from baseball in 2005 for health issues, but his lawyer said, "We believe this is a totally frivolous lawsuit. These allegations are baseless. He's healthy and would like to keep his health status private. We'll do our talking in court."

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  • mattz
  • sluggo

    poor guy. this is appalling. How would you feel if you had been sleeping with someone who was HIV positive? She may be negative now, but it can still develop down the line. I feel so sorry for both of these people. No-one deserves this, ok, maybe Madoff.

  • SohoTimmy

    Sorry, but it doesn't even seem that she is HIV positive (unless I missed it). What the hell is her injury???

  • rcltrh

    So I'm guessing she was a gold-digger all along? She was girlfriend, not wife. No strings attached. She could have crossed her legs and said no, or simply got out of bed and walked if he refused. Why did she stay so long and freely have this unprotected sex if she had a problem with it? I say ZERO for her and her gold-digging lawyers.

  • Zyskandar A Jaimot

    Round 8



    (In an electronic information age



    Greek tragedies come in all forms)





    I pick up the ringing telephone



    And it’s instant madness



    Who’s that! Who's that! He yells



    Infuriating to think who would call me



    as his footwork moves him closer to listen



    Rage pounds behind his eyes blinding him



    In possessiveness choking off



    Any meaningful communication



    He regards me as an ornament



    of conquest to do with as he pleases



    I try and dismiss this round of threats



    with a practiced turn of my back



    Hoping to ignore the impending drama



    The way boulders in the middle of rushing streams



    succumb to the waters constant slap



    Merely enduring immutable nature



    Get off the phone! He spits through



    a mouth tightly drawn like a boxer



    waiting to finish with a brutal flurry



    Thumbs tighten over knuckles white



    in fisted manic rage



    My body still bearing fresh marks



    Bruised and beaten oozing pinkness



    in spots like the colour



    of a cat which alternately licks



    and then bites until it is frantically raw



    I squat in a darkened corner holding



    onto the phone as if it were a life line



    of polite conversation and escape



    Hoping he will never check my e-mail



    His eyes dog me like a thief



    The scent of oppression and terror



    always in my nostrils



    He stands there like a conqueror



    waiting for me to stroke his body

    and then bend my

    being to its hardness



    How many times has he jerked some dress



    over my head leaving me without face



    A perverted pleasure of hateful excavation



    I can taste my fearful breath



    and it sickens me like sour milk



    And in that instant I can see



    a mare lying in the snow



    Strangled by it’s own umbilicus



    which is still attached to the foal



    while life bleeds away



    into coldness as stark and real



    as wiping my own blood



    from off the porcelain bathroom tile



    Wrong number I say arising and walking



    cautiously past him as if at the end



    of another round when pugilists halt



    their feral beatings by agreement



    Always wary and on guard as I



    calmly replace the receiver



    waiting for the next combat to commence



    And he believes he has won again



    Never really seeing my eyes



    or the slight smile of resolve



    like an empowered Clytemnestra waiting



    to slash out of that shadowed space.







  • Wza

    Wow

  • ides_of_march

    If you deliberately spit on someone in the street, can't you be charged with assault? The law really does only apply to the peasants.

  • fakenewyorker

    this is a very grim story. this woman and her lawyer have no shame.

  • BigNick

    It has been alleged that the umpire called him an unflattering term for a homosexual and that's why he spit in his face.

  • rdsizzle
  • Toby von Meistersinger

    I remember back in the early 1990s when he was on Toronto, he had this wholesome image and appeared in a McCain's frozen french fries commercial in Canada.

  • longacre

    That ump he spit on better get tested.

  • jackdonaghy

    Many of my friends who are disgruntled Mets fans wished him ill after he dogged it in NY, but this is ridiculous.

  • willw915

    ...Dall claims a doctor told him to get an AIDS test in 2005...



    If this isn't a direct quote, it should be written as 'HIV test'.

  • willw915

    thank you.

  • Thank you for pointing that out.

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