Corner Bistro "Victim" and Owner Respond, Confusion Abounds

0209bistroquestion.jpg While many have been insinuating that Nick Haramis is nothing more than a burger-eating boy who cried wolf, Grub Street reports that following an internal investigation the owner has decided to suspend the alleged gay-bashing employee even though he questions Haramis's claims.

In a response to all of the internet feedback, Haramis wrote a follow-up piece, admitting that he and his friends were "probably assholes," but nothing really justifies being thrown to the ground and called a "faggot." One supposed witness even points out that there is a "waiter/busboy who is not one to be messed with," and that he did indeed do what Haramis accused him of—however, when he returned to the restaurant an hour later he was "screaming at the bartender" and threw a salt shaker at him.

Fighting violence with violence is no solution, kids! Grown-up, and owner of Corner Bistro, William O’Donnell has also told Grub Street that he "may fire [the employee] pending a polling of Friday-night regulars. However, he stresses, 'when the dust settles we’ll see these claims are simply untrue.'" Allegedly, according to some accounts they gathered from that night, Haramis's party was belligerent and "the waiter claims to have been struck first."

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As any seasoned NYC server will tell you, belligerent ass-hole customers are the norm...and even though you want to pummel them senseless, honeslty you just can't. Because it isn't illegal to be an ass-hole, but it is illegal to beat their ass.

UNLESS you stealthily follow them home afterwards and carefully study their routines for several days, after which you pick the right moment to kidnap & take them to an undisclosed location where you recreate the entire situation but THIS time the ex-customer is forced to play the role of waiter while YOU get to be the abusive customer ..beating & sodomizing them over & over & over again.

And just wait to see what the tip is gonna be like!

You need a new photoshop intern, things are getting ugly round gothamist.

What, did the Riddler attack Corner Bistro?

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I wonder if it was the always-grumpy Asian bodybuilder dude with the over bite. He is always pissed off and seems to be on the verge of snapping every time I'm there. I had a lengthy conversation with him once about rude and smelly customers. He was jovial about it at first but as we kept talking and he kept recounting anecdotes, he got angrier and angrier. I think he's cool though, and it would suck if he was fired.

OK, so there was a fight at a bar with an employee and some patrons that admitted they were assholes. SO, Gothamist goes and makes headliens about how this bar may be anti-gay and all this shit, and is irresponsible and annoying in doing so.
You can't just assume shit and write it down when you're in the position you're in.
Really obnoxious.

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What is with the gothamist posters using "kids" so frequently lately?

Maybe you guys could sprinkle in "not in Kansas anymore", "[anything] from hell" or some other absurdly trite expressions once in a while. I know you guys are posters rather than writers, but really.

I'm wondering if they said anything to the asian waiter, such as some "ching chongery" stuff.
same with the SI sushi chef incident, both drivers were charged.

"Fighting violence with violence is no solution, kids! "

More preaching and self-righteousness from Granny Jen Carlson.

I'm glad #2 and #6 also noticed what a lame post this was.

so because these self-entitled, self-described assholes couldn't get a burger when they wanted and got bounced, then bitched about it on the internet, a waiter was suspended or fired. nice work!

'first they came for the assholes, and i didn't say anything...'

Three cheers for William O'Donnell. The owner has to fight for his establishment and do whatever it takes to quell the rebellion. Even if the 'waiter/busboy' was incited, you fire him because he's bad for business. And you do likewise to any barkeep and bouncer that brings bad press to your joint. Fire 'em all if you have to.

I think we can all agree that if Mathew Lesko came into our place of business (which the image above proves did in fact happen), we would all be unable to keep from punching him about his body. "I'm here to get my free government handout hamburger!" Punch punch punch.

The bar business is tough. I owned a retail business in Midtown for many years and it was bad enough and we didn't serve food, beer or booze. New yorkers aren't the easiest people to please. Drunks elsewhere are even worse. The problem is the license, you screw up and you're out of business. I don't have any solutions to these problems.

All restaurant owners should be nice to their customers like Sonny in "A Bronx Tale." And if the customer is still an asshole then you get un-nice. Capisce Italian?

First of I want to state that I'm investagaing this case. I have watch the video of the incident from an inside source. The video clearly shows that the employee was attack first. In Nick's statement he said that the waiter grab him by his T-shirt and throw him on the floor, which is a complete fairy tale. The employee was smack in the face first and that's when the waiter push and then threw him on the floor. If you have 5 guys against one, you need to protect yourself and that was the case. It has nothing of him being gay, when you are in anger insulting words will come out, I'm sure everyone knows that. Corner Bistro would never suvive in the West Villiage if they were homophobic but yet they have been there for almost 45 years. I,m pretty sure Nick is trying to make money or to make a name for himself. The truth will be out there once I post the video of the incident on U-Tube once I have permission. Corner Bistro can counter sue for incident. They have video evidence that the employee was attack first. Secondly they can sue of false statement effecting their business. Since Nick and the owner agree to drop charges and call it even, there will be no lawsuit at the moment.

There's something about an official investigator not knowing how to use the past tense of verbs that comes of as a little fishy. Let alone posting his personal e-mail address on an Internet forum.

check out this video on youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D2l6-EayKd8you douchbag. Oh and my email is fake you dump prick.

I'm assuming you meant DUMB prick.

(So who's the "dump" one now?!)

All your tenses are belong to us.

If people really want to see what happen I have the video. If I have enough request I will post it up on u-tube. The truth will be out there. Nick Haramis is big fat lair who tries to make a name for himself. He was the one that attack the staff first I have the evidence he doesn't. It's his words against live evidence. email me at kooolq76@yahoo.com for request on the video.

All this stuff about him being gay is just excuse to sue the establishment for money (hate crimes). He wasn't being mistreat because he's gay but the fact that he was a drunk stupid prick. The truth will be out there. I promise you people that. Don't believe him.

All this stuff about him being gay is just excuse to sue the establishment for money (hate crimes). He wasn't being mistreat because he's gay but the fact that he was a drunk stupid prick. The truth will be out there. I promise you people that. Don't believe him.

What did you think about the video? I think the accused is the victim.

The video clears it up.

There was a mixed group of about 5 guys and girls total. Two of the girls are sitting at a table, the others are standing. The waiter in question clears the drink glass of one of the girls at the table while she's talking, but catches what he did and calls him on it, probably claiming the glass wasn't empty. The two have a pretty heated back and forth in each others faces, then one of the guys gets between them to separate them and appears to lay an arm on the waiter who then takes him down.

I waited tables and tended bar when I first moved here years ago. You put up with a lot of aholes in the bar biz, it comes with the territory. The waiter should look for a less stressful line of work.

Larry? Do you work in the kitchen by any chance? I think I know you.

I don't by any chance work there nor I have any personal relationship with the establishment. Since it's such a talk about thing I thought I could at least find out what happen. It's wrong to get somebody fired. Attacking a customer is wrong, but the waiter was just defending himself. Imagine working all night, dealing with drunk assholes and next thing you know you get slap in the face by some idiot. Who give a customer the right to hit in the first place?

If you don't have a connection to the establishment, how the hell did you get their surveillance video?!

Hey Larry, why you not learn speak English good?

English is obviously not his first language. However, his communication skills are very good, even with the past tense mistakes, he makes himself understood. Many of us have command of a second language at about the same level as Larry. If I'm wrong, I apologize.

So it is ok to be an asshole, but to call someone a faggot is going over the line? I mean, the guy is a faggot, is he not?

Whammo, that's just lame. You know that's incendiary and makes you sound like a bigot. So apparently you're an out loud and proud bigot. Congrats on coming to terms with that.

As far as Nick is concerned, however, if the video is true he possibly cost a guy just doing his job fired because he and his group assaulted HIM! Nick should lose his job at BlackBook over slander.

Call the police!

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