June 19, 2008
Family, Friends Say Goodbye to Fatally Abused Boy
Yesterday, a funeral was held for three-year-old Kyle Smith, who died under the care and apparent abuse of family friends. Family members, friends and neighbors shed tears and voiced regrets over the child's death.
Kyle's mother, Eugenia Holmes, carried a photograph of her son. Last year, while battling drug addiction, Holmes had agreed to let her friend Nymeem Cheatham take Kyle in. After his battered body was examined by the medical examiner's office two weeks ago, prosecutors accused Cheatham and her boyfriend Lemar Martin of beating and sodomizing him, after an autopsy found a torn tongue, broken bones, and much more.
The pastor who led the funeral service said, "A lot of time in life we say that the person that's done something terrible is insane... Most of the people who do bad things are evil. In this case, it was extremely so."
The NY Times devoted a lengthy article to Smith's sad, short life and the regrets and blame being thrown in the aftermath. Child welfare advocates believe his father who could have taken Kyle back was confused by the process, neighbors recalled seeing Cheatham verbally abuse Kyle and dress him inappropriately (summer clothes in winter weather, long shirt during the heat wave) yet never said anything, and there was no way to find out that Cheatham's biological children had been taken away from her.
Photograph of Kyle Smith, on the left, with his older brother Darien; the NY Times reported Darien stood "in the back of the church" and held "a single balloon with white doves and hearts."




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We must as residents of NYC and our smaller and larger communities open our eyes, and hearts to what is happening in our building, on our block or in our community and take action when necesary. Speak out and knock on a door, ask questions, call the police. Do not be a stranger in your own community. Events like this happen more than we think and we need to take care of one another especially the weaker and those that cannot help themselves.
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looking at that picture I can understand why there wasn't a dry eye at the funeral.
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if you were to report child abuse in the projects then you'd be reporting practically 99% of all the families. It would be way too tiring. child abuse is the norm not the anomaly.
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This calls out for one thing....mandatory abortions for stupid people!!
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It's always hard to hear a child being abuse by there parents or guardian. The system will never change because the lack of our voices to change the Child Welfare System.
It's a complicated matter in this world. We produce too many babies, but not enough good parents. Even a "Gay Couple" will have a difficult time adopting a child. The system would hand them over to a straight couple without the harsh process. This is nothing, compare to what we don't know around the world.
This hurts because it was close to home and we did nothing to stop it again.
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The Mother is supposed to be a victim due to her drug addiction?!!
The real problem is that anybody can make babies, regardless of how fkd or stupid they are...therefore more babies will be abused.
AND even-though abuse might be a HUGE problem (a fact)it is not right!! not because something happens or is a "norm" of behavior for stupid people we should just sit back.