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I don't know what to get my boyfriend for Valentine's Day. I think most "romantic" gifts seem aimed at women, but I'd like to get him a gift that expresses my love for him. Help! 
Ask Gothamist thinks you shouldn't worry about getting him something that screams "Valentine's Day" - and for goodness' sake, please avoid getting him a giant teddy bear or a bouquet of pink roses. We suggest you simply get him something you'd think he likes. Why not surprise him with tickets to an event or a gift certificate for an activity he'll enjoy? Whether he likes sports, music, cooking, politics, or giant squid - we're sure you can find something suitable in this great big city of ours. What could be more romantic than a day or evening with you doing something he enjoys? We also think you can't go wrong with wine or liquor, and just about everyone likes chocolate. Do the male readers of Ask Gothamist have any other suggestions?
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just a thought .... how about you wake him up with a little 'gratification'. Romance is for the ladies. Straight to the point is for the guys.
Tell him to cancel dinner reservations, and cook him his favorite pasta dish at home. Do his laundry. Iron his shirts. Then strip naked, give him a lap dance, and **** his brains out.
It'll be the Valentine's Day gift to rival all other Valentine's Day gifts.
However, don't do a thing until he gives you the roses and whatever nice gift he's got. If he's got nothing, give your "gift" to his best friend.
Check out www.mightygoods.com and The Morning News recently had a V-day gift giving guy.
dear BrianVan
do all that for roses? if a guy would rather forgo dinner, chocolate and roses for things he cares more about.. perhaps the same goes for a woman?
for either partner, best to get something they like. showing you listen is a better gift then a flower.
-A
Sorry if it got buried in there: roses AND a gift! And, there are many similar things a man can do for a woman if he wants to give an unforgettable gift himself.
Of course, if you're not a serious or long-term couple, then just trade reasonable gifts (for your respective incomes) and top it off with whatever amorous things you like to do behind closed doors... no pressure, no problem.
How 'bout you take him out to dinner. Experience first-hand the financial burden that is Valentine's Day to men.
Hey, guys like candy! Guys like flowers too!
this is a no brainer. sex, sex and sex.
BLACK MONDAY
Home-made brownies, cookies, etc. A little "sweat equity" goes a long way
do something you would never do otherwise, thats really romantic. like ass to mouth fuck and suck.
Give him a booklet of Blow Job Certificates. Seriously. Make a small booklet of about ten certificates that grant him one session of fellatio, no reciprocation required. He'll be "blown away."
Two words: Cleveland Steamer
Post-coital Pasta Carbonara. One big bowl. Two forks. In bed. "Dessert" served before dinner.
A Valentine's tradition that never goes out of style.
Let’s face it… Valentines Day is pretty much HER day, but that doesn’t mean she can’t also share in the ceremonial romanticized gift giving. But what DOES she get him?
I’d say if you want to be thoughtful, don’t stress the romantic side of things. Find something related to something that truly interests him. Gift certificate for his vinyl addiction, tickets to a sporting event, movies you know HE really likes, tickets to a comedy show or a music events (not to be read MUSICAL). As long as you put some thought into it his, you’d be sure to please.
For the metrosexual in him, why not pamper him with a gift certificate to one of NYC’s many spas. Be it Bliss, Oasis, or Chelsea’s Nickel; there are many options for messages that may help our testosterone heavy brethren in such a stressful gift giving time. Try and resist purchasing something for yourself as well, but if you must there are also massage sessions for couples… enjoy the experience together!
Another option for the metrosexual guy is a nice addition to his wardrobe. Take a visit to one of the many designers and boutiques the city has to offer. Want something extra special, but manly check out the upcoming line at John Varvatos. If he likes funky and stylish prints on his button downs take a visit to Paul Smith or Ted Baker… if he enjoys the flunkier more trendy flare, there’s the Flying A’s boutique shop down in SoHo. Has he got lots of accessories? Why not a practical Valet Tray for his cufflinks, watches, and rings.
For the lazy guy with potential, treat him to a straight edge shave from The Art of the Shave. This Madison Ave shop gives the guys an old school treatment with steam-warmed clothes draped over the face to open up the pores and then a frothy sandalwood shave cream is applied for the almost “too close for comfort” shave. Putting the Color Purple fears aside, after he’s done you’ll have his face feeling nice and smooth, just like a legs of the strippers at V.I.P. Gentlemen’s Club.
Want something a little more sensual? Why not give him the gift of you? Make your way to Sabor on 9th Ave and 10th St. and purchase a massage-oil that’s not too fruity. Next head down to SoHo to any number of boutique lingerie shops and pick out something sexy (think about what’s sexy to him!). You’re sure to pay top dollar for your unmentionables, but I’m certain with them on you’ll feel it’s money well spent. As much as Victoria’s Secret and those cheesy sex shops are tempting… I say go with a bit of class and individuality. After his well thought out dinner plans I’m sure he’ll deserve unwrapping or having his gift unwrapped FROM you by you. The look on his face will be priceless. After that’s done, treat him to a massage with the massage oil purchased from Sabor… happy ending included!
Those are my tips… hope it works out, but if it doesn’t go well there’s always Steak and Blowjob Day! http://www.steakandbjday.com/
n'Joy
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